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March 24, 2015 by: Jennifer Priest

Why I Almost Threw All Of My Craft Supplies Away

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Over the course of about 2 years, my personal pendulum swung from certified craft hoarder to minimalist nomad. A big part of this transition and transformation had to do with a difficult financial, emotional, and health challenged period in my life. Multiple accidents and surgeries, too much time off work, and bad spending habits led my family to a point where we found ourselves behind on all of our bills, getting calls from creditors, and crying as we read an unexpected foreclosure notice. And I am not one to cry. This situation is overwhelming for anyone and it is hard to understand unless you have been there (which I hope you haven't been there!). I disclosed this in a recent newsletter I sent out and got so many responses from people who lost their homes, have gone through similar hardships, or who are currently in similar situations.

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I thought long and hard about doing this kind of post and sharing all the things that came together to catalyze this metamorphosis from being a certified poster child for craft excess (eight diecutting systems, anyone?) to nearly giving it all up and finally resulting in a conscientious, strategic, and practical approach to creativity in life, business, and craft. To grow is hard. And then to reconcile that transformation with my work in an industry that is dependent on people buying things, lots and lots of pretty things, well, that seemed impossible but I figured it out and I am doing it. It is something I think about and focus on daily as I make things to blog about. How much storage space do I need for this? Is this smart? Is it affordable? Is it useful?

Faced with losing my house, I came to a place where “things” did not matter to me anymore. The crossroads I found myself standing at had two paths, both of which came with the caveat of fewer things in my life.

The way foreclosure works is that the bank sends you a notice or two or forty. Every mortgage company does it differently. They try to work out completely unreasonable payment plans with you, like expect you to agree to make triple mortgage payments each month to catch things up. When you're living on 40% of your pay due to disability and the other wage earner has lost clients and money due someone embezzling money from the business and just a bad economy, well, single mortgage payments are a problem. That's how we got in that trouble, right? When you can't make the impossible payment arrangements because you actually need some money to eat and put gas in the car to take kids to school, the bank gets nasty. They told me on a Friday that we had worked out a payment arrangement. On Saturday I got a foreclosure notice in the mail.  They KNEW they were foreclosing when I spent hours on the phone trying to massage the finances to make it all work. That was one of many hours long phone calls of me trying to work with them. It was devastating.

I got what I deserved. I was a straight up jerk to people who were losing their homes during 2007-2009. I said asinine, rude things like, “they should have saved more” or “they were irresponsible with the loan they got.” Karma kicked me when I was down, when it probably should have.  I took my lumps. And grew. But it was an incredibly painful lesson I wish on no one; there is so much more to it than saving money or being responsible. Sometimes, crap just happens, all at once, in an avalanche, to where you can't even come up for air until it is all over. This episode in my life also forced me to take stock of my life and make some hard decisions. We all have our moments when we have to learn from the school of hard knocks. And just because bad things happen to someone, doesn't mean they are a bad person. And just because bad things happen to someone, that doesn't make them a good person either. It makes them a human. Some people might think I am sharing too much. I am also aware of the sad, petty mean girls who talk smack and will revel in glee about my sharing this difficult story. This post isn't for them. This post isn't for haters, naysayers, or the Joneses. This post is for the people who are going through something hard and embarrassing and difficult to talk about for fear of judgement. We all need to know someone went through it, survived, and came out the other side. This post is for the people who are buried under guilt and mountains of stuff and are paralyzed to do anything about it, even when they know those things are not bringing them happiness anymore. This post is for the people who are ready to hear about and maybe take the next step on a journey of self-discovery, happiness, and putting the joy back into their crafting. Now, back to the story.

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After meeting with a lawyer, we knew we had two rocky, treacherous paths to choose.

One path was to let the foreclosure occur. We could live in our old fifth wheel trailer temporarily and put our stuff in storage. Less stuff meant saving money on moving and storage fees. We could take the money we had already saved and pay off other bills and create a better savings account. We could buy the new car we so desperately needed.

The other path involved keeping the house. In order to do that, I needed to raise alot of money fast to pay the arrears on the home loan and stop the foreclosure process. My husband still wasn't back to work at this point and Christmas was right around the corner. I started to see the things in my house as opportunities to make money. In calculating the price I could sell them for, I also realized there had been incredible waste. Why did I buy $10,000 worth of Quickutz dies that I never used? I didn't buy them all at once but if I had never bought them at all and just saved that money, I would have been able to weather this financial, health, and emotional storm much better. At the same time, I saw things that came as a result of my work in the craft industry. I had multiple photo printers I was able to sell because of work I had done with a printer company at one point. Going through these items was a double-edged sword of extremes – it was painful and I felt guilt on one hand and on the other hand I felt incredibly blessed and fortunate.

In choosing either path, I was forced to confront and deal with the things I didn't want to deal with. I kept buying craft supplies and stuff to put salve on a wound that kept getting deeper every time I bought something new. I'll go into those details more in the next post.

We chose the second path, sold off an incredible amount of stuff, and got out of debt. It was because I had amassed all of this stuff and had a BUNCH of etsy inventory that we were able to sell a great majority of the stuff off and in 20 days, raise the over $14,000+ we needed to close the gap between what we had already saved and the arrears amount the bank needed. I am very grateful for the people who helped me through this process and for every single customer, friend, and family member who bought things from us so we could make the deadline. It was one of the most incredibly difficult times in my life and tested the bonds of all of my relationships.

The process of determining which path to choose was a formative moment in my adulthood. It signified a change in where I looked for happiness. I'll continue this story throughout the next few days. It is a long one. I am sharing this story because it fully explains where I am at now with crafting, why it seems things here at Hydrangea Hippo have changed, and where I am going next. I know things are different here than when you first came for a visit. I hope you'll continue on the journey with me.

  • Part One: Why I Almost Threw All Of My Craft Supplies Away
  • Part Two: How I Stopped Being a Craft Hoarder
  • Part Three: A New Mantra: Make Enjoy Buy Repeat

 

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Comments

  1. Erika at Mami Tales says

    March 24, 2015 at 7:54 am

    I’m so sorry you’re going through all this!! I’m glad to hear you’re taking a valuable lesson out of it and sharing it! Thank you for the courage to open up your life and your heart to help others in similar situations. Best of luck to you, and I do hope the story ends in a high note!

    Reply
    • Jennifer Priest says

      March 24, 2015 at 7:57 am

      Thanks. It’s all good now 😉 But yeah, it was crazy hard when we were going through it!

      Reply
  2. TracieClaiborne says

    March 24, 2015 at 8:32 am

    Since I value honesty and humility over most other character traits, this really moved me. I am so proud of you for sharing this because I KNOW it’s going to hit home for so many over-purchasers!! Can’t wait to read more. Thanks for your willingness to share.

    Reply
  3. Katie Smith (@punkprojects) says

    March 24, 2015 at 8:36 am

    Wow, this is crazy, and I wouldn’t want to go through it, I’m sure it was hard but I’m glad you’re still crafting!

    Thanks for blogging about it, it may help someone in the same situation. I don’t hate my room, and I love crafting, but somedays I feel like I have WAY to much stuff in here and I have to get rid of some.

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  4. Nancy says

    March 24, 2015 at 8:50 am

    so sorry you had to go through this. Thank you for sharing your story. Glad you are happier with your new found minammilism.

    Reply
  5. Kam says

    March 24, 2015 at 10:53 am

    Oh Jennifer I am so sorry! What a journey you have been on! You are so brave to not only stay the course but to share your story with us. You are such a generous, creative, supportive friend to so many. I hope that by sharing your story you will feel supported too though I know that is absolutely not why you wrote this. The thing is we will learn so much more from your honesty and putting yourself out there as a real human being than just about anything else you can teach us about. (And you are a wealth of information so that is really saying something!) You are one amazing woman!

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  6. Dana says

    March 24, 2015 at 11:47 am

    Wow what a powerful story Jennifer. I so feel you on a lot of the crafters “hoarding” and the guilt that follows. Can’t wait for you next post.

    Reply
  7. Karen says

    March 24, 2015 at 12:32 pm

    You are brave and generous to share this story. I especially appreciate your sharing how you felt about the things that were happening to you. I hope your story has a happy ending!

    Reply
  8. kathy wittlock says

    March 24, 2015 at 2:35 pm

    Great article, I have jumped ship several times in past few years. Congrats on making it work… You are honest … Look forward to the rest of story… I have spent the last 3 months living out of a bag with 3 pairs if jeans and tops…going from hospitals to taking care of my grandkids while baby has been in ICU… Luckily I can say I have time to do these things…I have learned stuff is not important nor are the so called friends that judge.
    Kathy

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  9. Lindsay @Artsy-Fartsy Mama says

    March 24, 2015 at 3:27 pm

    Thank you for sharing this!! Life can be so hard sometimes. So glad you were able to find a way to fix things!

    Reply
  10. Paola says

    March 24, 2015 at 3:52 pm

    I am so sorry you are going through this …you are strong and brave for sharing your experience. I am guilty of over spending on craft supplies and find myself buried in product that I know I won’t use or has gotten lost in the abyss. In all honesty it is always in my mind of how much I have and don’t need. We are not in debt because of my spending… but I can see it happening easily if I had not taken control….your blog post has only empowered me to move keep going and destash my studio …get rid of what I don’t use …and because crafting is all I can do I have to buy supplies at some time…we have set a budget and I always ask myself ….do I really need it or is it just a want?…will I use it more than 5-10 times or only once? Not easy questions when it is so easy to hit the buy button and get that amazing high when it says processed…however the guilt does hit you and at some point with some items regret. I can relate to you experience with crafting and spending. It’s only been a a couple months of rethinking craft spending …I hope I follow through and not go regress to old ways. Thank you for sharing….

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  11. Jolane Donald says

    March 24, 2015 at 5:22 pm

    Thank you for sharing your truth to help others who are on the same path at some time. I’m glad that you made it through and that you still have joy.

    Reply
  12. Mary says

    March 24, 2015 at 6:34 pm

    Thank you for sharing your story! So happy you have found your space.

    Reply
  13. Aida Haron says

    March 24, 2015 at 8:54 pm

    Jennifer, this is such a brave story ! I can only imagine the anxiety, the stress of your situation must’ve been terrifying.

    I catch glimipses of me in it, and had scrap supplies not been as expensive as they are in Singapore, I would’ve been in dire hoarder mode. Ditto the craft room, I hated anything being less perfect and so much of my identity as a working crafter was linked to the pristine space. Three years ago I began my walk into simplifying, it has been so much better ……. a slow process but one that eventually lightened my life.

    May you continue the process and be happy. Aida

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  14. karenladd says

    March 24, 2015 at 10:42 pm

    Thank you so much for your inspiring story Jennifer. I see your cautionary tale as one of hope and a reminder not to let things take over our lives. Your shopping therapy is rampant in this society and even though I have been able to keep my own impulse to buy in check, I too have way too many craft supplies! From fabric, to candle-making and soap-making tools and supplies, to stamping and scrapbook goodies….there are so many things that I can’t even find what I want for any given project. I have been loving your posts about how to use what you have and start to love crafting again! As with all things, it’s finding the right balance.

    So glad that you were able to save your house and that you are on your way to a new outlook!

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  15. Mary Hagler says

    March 25, 2015 at 6:37 am

    Your story should serve as a wake up call to many of us…. Especially after frenzy buying yesterday on HSN…. Now where to put all this stuff…. Too busy cramming it away to actually create anything! Thank you for sharing and good luck in your new life of freedom !

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  16. Jennifer Priest says

    March 25, 2015 at 8:39 am

    Thank you for sharing your story too!

    Reply
  17. Christine Middlecamp says

    March 25, 2015 at 9:40 am

    You are not alone in your financial/physical struggles. I bet there are an abundance of crafters who have had the same experiences. Most keep silent due to fear of judgement. When my husband died six years ago, my salery was split in half. Still, I spent like crazy while trying to fill the void of loneliness and heartache. Around year five, it hit me like a ton of bricks. It wasn’t the product overloading me, but the mounds of debt I had created from nothing. I had very little to show for it but used clothing and a scrapbook collection to meet any crafter’s dream. It was simply stuff. My pain was no where near resolved either. Last year, I finally made the call to face my pain, met with a lawyer and filed for bankruptcy. It saved my life. It gave me a fresh start to rethink my poorly thought-out habits and desires for nice things. Let’s face it – the competition in the crafts industry is fierce. I eventually closed my blog and went about redefining for myself and what it means to be a productive, fulfilled artist. My studio is still filled with all kinds of beautiful things, but my reasons for making art and recording memories are entirely different. My voice is more authentic and real, as are my creations. I even go so far as to create my own supplies. I feel empowered and free, and no longer am I lonely. Keep sharing – you speak for many!

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    • Jennifer Priest says

      March 25, 2015 at 10:54 am

      Thank you so much! I am sorry to hear about what you went through but am glad you are on the other side of it now. Yeah, the industry is nuts at times but there are pockets of good and that is what I try to keep my focus and relationships geared towards. You’d think crafts would make people happy but some women are angry and mean and it doesn’t matter what hobby they pick up, they just have some void compelling them to be mean to others. It’s harder to grow from things and progress. I’m glad you did. I feel like I am on the same path – let’s level up! LOL Thanks again for sharing. It means alot to me that you and everyone took the time to comment.

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  18. Charity Hotrum says

    March 26, 2015 at 7:19 am

    Thanks for sharing…I agree it takes bravery to share something like this. It shouldn’t be! But it is.
    I’ve had to cut my own spending due to a divorce and the resulting income cut.
    The kids are struggling with the changes, but it’s the people around me who are making it worse. They insist I OWE my children these things I can’t afford. We need to support each other. That is all!

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  19. Jennifer Priest says

    March 26, 2015 at 7:49 am

    Oh boy. Yeah that is tough. One thing I have learned is that when people are putting pressure on me to do something they think I ought to be doing, they’re usually trying to justify something they are doing. It has nothing to do with me. That might be what is happening with those other people. You gotta do what you think is right for you and your kids. No one else can know the intricacies of your whole life to be able to tell you you SHOULD or SHOULDN’T do anything. You know what is right 😉

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  20. TRISH says

    April 3, 2015 at 8:36 pm

    Jennifer,
    I have met you a few times and after your post, I am more impressed and I respect you more today. I am very proud of you to step forward and share-it’s not easy! I was an addict-not substance abuse- I was a shopaholic. My craft room was so packed; I couldn’t open the door and I hated it, I refused to go in there yet I kept buying more and never made anything with what I bought . I am a crafter and just starting to get my foot into places. I would go to things just for the free swag, **I just needed it. wanted it. had to have it and than I would bring it home throw it in a drawer and forget about it.

    I have walked in your shoes, I have seen what you have seen. … I cried everyday and every night- sometimes I never slept. Stress and Anxiety Panic Attacks. We had no one to turn too. My husband lost his job of 18 years and I lost mine after 28 years and just because we lost our jobs it didn’t mean the bills went away. The bank made promises that they didn’t honor, asked us to do a loan mod and sold our loan to another company- yeah we did the dark bleak trail. We found this wonderful company named John Hart Realty the owner Harout- he took care of us and fought the bank everyday. Every Foreclosure date extended, no bad news letter ever came to our door- it took over a year and half and he got the bank to settle. We never made another payment after meeting with Harout. If we had wanted to keep the house he would have negotiated a better rate for us**what was best we never had to paid him a dime. We sold the house no penalties. no monies owed and we left… I didn’t want to it was my home- yet it was so tiny, we needed to leave. I was always so worried about what others would think- especially the mean girl the one who wants us to fail -secretly they are jealous and want what you have (smile). You know who is real and who isn’t. (it’s like when you have money and everyone is your friend and when the money runs out and they leave).

    You get to a point you just don’t care it’s about you and your family..I dwindled our retirement away on craft products. I have since learned to part with many things- I’ve started donating it- the Ronald McDonald house, my church, family friends kids and to some ladies I’m in a group with (they think I’m nice by giving them stuff- I don’t tell them it’s my therapy). I was a person who criticized people too! Never realizing it was happening to me/us- thinking that would never happen to me- What people don’t realized, everyone is 1 paycheck away from being homeless.

    I think you are a powerhouse in the craft industry, the social media industry and now that you’ve touched the bottom there’s no where to go but up!!! So, enjoy the journey up and But,remember your lessons- it will be hard but your strength is stronger. Take each day and be grateful for it, each day when you wake up appreciate what’s important. Never worry about what anyone thinks of you or what they say Only what your family thinks and says about you!! I’ve seen your family and I know they love you.
    God Bless,
    Trish

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    • Jennifer Priest says

      April 3, 2015 at 11:16 pm

      Sorry to hear your tough story but thank you for sharing it. Glad you are doing well now. We have to remember these lessons, right? Only gets better from here 🙂

      Reply
  21. Shirley says

    May 24, 2016 at 1:27 pm

    Hi Jen,
    Just reading this now and am aching over your past pain. I am so glad you’ve come out of this stronger and more humble. I know it must have been so hard. Thank you for sharing it. I hope things are better for you and your family now.

    Reply
  22. Mary says

    May 2, 2018 at 10:18 pm

    I know this is an older post but found it today via Facebook. Your story is so honest. Your candor is refreshing. I’m a card maker and scrapbooker in theory. I have spent the past four years purging my stuff. Even with all my stuff, among my other craft friends, I was the most frugal. While some friends would drop $100 plus at scrapbooking stores, I felt guilty if I spent $40. I knew one lady who would buy all sorts of supplies only to put her shopping bags in a room, and rarely use the items. It’s only recently that I have realized that many of the people I watch on YouTube are paid to promote new items. How naive am I?

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    • Jennifer Priest says

      May 7, 2018 at 12:52 pm

      Crazy how this post is old but still relevant. I am glad that you had more self control than many of us during the crazy days of scrapbooking.

      I promote items from companies – they are called sponsored posts. A post is sponsored when you get the product for free and/or get paid money to promote it online. EVERYONE who is doing this is supposed to clearly disclose that they have a relationship with the sponsor. They don’t have to say if they were paid or not but they DO have to say that they have a relationship. So like on my site here, some of my posts start with a sentence saying “this post is sponsored by …” and names the sponsor.

      If YouTubers are NOT disclosing (that’s what this process is called) then they are breaking the law. The FTC has guidelines about this and you can report people for non-compliance. But you best bet would be to first reach out to them and let them know they are breaking these rules. Here’s the link: https://www.ftc.gov/tips-advice/business-center/guidance/ftcs-endorsement-guides-what-people-are-asking

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  23. Ann says

    January 22, 2020 at 7:49 am

    I believe in fate and this situation is exactly where I am now! I have spent a fortune on supplies that I would need 3 lifetimes to use. Now every time I go in my craft room I feel guilty and overwhelmed. I needed your blog post inspiration and up it popped. Thank you for sharing x

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